Is he just not that into you?

I don't want to be "sort of dating" someone. I don't want to be "kinda hanging out" with someone. I don't want to spend a lot of energy suppressing my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved. 
~ He's just not that into you 


When do you stop pretending something is going to come out of nothing? 


But then again.... sometimes love can't find you unless you let yourself be vulnerable.  Putting up walls doesn't mean being strong.  Walking away because it's the right thing to do doesn't necessarily mean it IS the right thing to do.  Rather, it oftentimes is a sign of weakness.  So, where do you go from here?